Let Go
How to detach and clear through the ancient Hawaiian practice of Ho'oponopono.
What if you could experience peace even while losing something or someone who meant “everything” to you? What if surrendering your attachment to material possessions is the key to receiving deeper abundance?
The things we cling to as “ours”—money, titles, objects, and relationships—are all illusions constructed in our minds. These illusions create anxiety and fear, even in the absence of any external events.
If you feel a sense of loss, ask yourself: “Why am I so attached to [object, person, etc.]?” The journey of clearing begins with this awareness: When you detach from “ownership”, what comes to you arrives freely—not from clinging, but from vibrational alignment. This state of being is grace. Moreover, grace begins with your relationship to the Source—the one thing that cannot be bought, stolen, or taken from you.
Much of our suffering does not stem from loss itself, but from our attachment to what we believe we need or deserve. It is not our lack that causes pain, but rather our fixation on possessing certain things. The paradox is simple yet profound: By letting go of attachment, we create space to receive what truly benefits us at the right time.
When we align ourselves with Source energy, we navigate the offerings of the physical world more effectively. We are here to create, experiment, learn, and grow. The gifts and identities of this world are temporary by design, and this is how it should be. By examining and releasing our emotional ties to all temporal things, we begin to experience true freedom. What comes to us resonates with the vibrational frequency we are emitting, arriving not with a sense of needing to grasp or control it, but as a gift—often unexpected. Our true needs are fulfilled more wisely, and the abundance that arrives aligns better with the goals we hold in our hearts and souls. We can enjoy and use the gifts and achievements of the material world, but we must not become tethered to them. Even in close relationships, it is wise to maintain personal autonomy to enjoy the fuller benefits of deeper love.
As we begin to embrace detachment, we may realize we are still carrying the weight of disappointment, personal inadequacies, or complex relationship issues. How can we cleanse our energy of these burdensome feelings?
Into Practice
Ho’oponopono is a beautiful traditional Hawaiian practice of reconciliation and forgiveness that means “to make right” or “to correct.” The core mantra consists of four phrases:
I love you.
I am sorry.
Please forgive me.
Thank you.
Each phrase serves a unique purpose:
“I love you” reconnects you to your divine source and all of life.
“I am sorry” acknowledges your part in any imbalance or hurt.
“Please forgive me” invites release and clears blame.
“Thank you” completes the cycle with gratitude and grace.
You can apply this mantra to any troubling situation, whether it is a conflict, a scarcity mindset, or an emotional wound. Try repeating the complete mantra 30 times in a rhythmic manner, similar to a meditation practice. Allow it to become a sacred expression, spoken with specific intent, and feel it resonate deeply within you as you repeat the words.
At its core, Ho’oponopono is based on several powerful beliefs:
We are all connected.
Problems are reflections of stored memories and beliefs within us.
By taking full responsibility, we can cleanse these memories and heal.
No one else is to blame; we must turn inward.
This practice teaches us that every issue we perceive is filtered through our own minds, shaped by our memories. These memories distort the present moment, creating pain and confusion.
Ho'oponopono beautifully encourages us to embrace our responsibility in releasing emotional burdens. It is not about blame or guilt; rather, it is about honoring our spiritual journey and unlocking the incredible freedom that comes from healing and letting go.
Let’s celebrate this transformative path together!
